21st century masculinity and 21st century something entirely else

Manhood surrendered

Manhood intact

Update: As more details emerge another name comes to the fore - Captain Roberto Bosio who was on the ship by chance and who took charge after the ships master had failed to

“We managed to avoid the worse and have the world crash down around us. I just want to rest and forget.
“Don’t call me a hero. I just did my duty, the duty of a sea captain – actually the duty of a normal man.
“I and the others with me just did our duty. We looked each other in the eyes for a second and then we Just got on with it.”